How to Silence Your Inner Critic
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

How to Silence Your Inner Critic

We are often our own worst enemies. The inner critic tells us we’re not good enough, replays stories that no longer serve us, and convinces us to settle for lives we don’t love. In this post, I’ll share how to recognize that voice, separate facts from fear, and shift toward self-compassion, confidence, and the courage to create a new chapter.

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The Courage to Share and Live Your Dreams
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The Courage to Share and Live Your Dreams

So many of us keep our biggest dreams hidden — not because they don’t matter, but because we fear what others might think. In silence, we hand away our joy before it even has a chance to grow. The Courage to Share and Live Your Dreams explores why we hide our visions, the hidden cost of staying quiet, and simple steps to reclaim joy by giving your dreams the voice they deserve.

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Coping With a Layoff: Staying Grounded While Creating Your Next Chapter
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Coping With a Layoff: Staying Grounded While Creating Your Next Chapter

Being laid off can feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you. Beyond the financial strain, it often stirs up fear, doubt, and a loss of confidence. But the layoff doesn’t define you—what matters is how you steady yourself, refocus on your goals, and take action toward your future. In this post, I share practical tools for emotional regulation, daily coping rituals, and ways to build resilience so you can navigate the job search with clarity and confidence.

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What a Storm in Desolation Wilderness Taught Me About What Really Matters
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

What a Storm in Desolation Wilderness Taught Me About What Really Matters

On a five-day backpacking trip in Desolation Wilderness, I carried a heavy pack through granite peaks, weathered a violent storm that flooded my tent, and ended with a sunrise over Lake Aloha I’ll never forget. Along the way, I learned how nature strips life down to essentials stay dry, stay safe, find your footing and how teamwork and stillness remind us of what really matters.

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Creating Micro-Adventures – Fun Without a Plane Ticket or Big Budget
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Creating Micro-Adventures – Fun Without a Plane Ticket or Big Budget

Adventure doesn’t have to mean plane tickets, big budgets, or weeks away. Sometimes the best adventures are the small, intentional ones we create in our own backyard. Micro-adventures bring play, curiosity, and joy back into everyday life—reminding us that fun doesn’t have to wait for “someday.”

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Rewriting Your Inner Script: Escaping the Loop That Keeps You Stuck
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Rewriting Your Inner Script: Escaping the Loop That Keeps You Stuck

We all carry inner scripts—those messages that play on repeat in our heads. For some, they’re supportive. For others, they’re destructive loops like, “You’re not good enough” or “Why even try?” These thoughts aren’t facts—they’re old stories. And the good news? Stories can be rewritten. Learn four simple steps to break the loop and create a new, empowering script.

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The “One Beautiful Thing” Daily Practice
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The “One Beautiful Thing” Daily Practice

Beauty isn’t rare—it’s everywhere. The “One Beautiful Thing” practice is a simple daily ritual: notice and name one beautiful thing. That’s it. A flower, a smile, the way sunlight filters through a window. In slowing down to notice, we shift from rushing through life to actually living it.

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When in Doubt, Follow the Waterfall (and Your Joy)
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

When in Doubt, Follow the Waterfall (and Your Joy)

Sometimes joy shows up when plans fall apart. Trails twist, maps fail, and what feels like “lost” becomes waterfalls, redwoods, laughter, and unexpected beauty. Nature has a way of turning detours into the reset button we’ve been searching for.

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I Tested a Digital Detox App for 30 Days—And It Changed the Way I Use My Phone
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I Tested a Digital Detox App for 30 Days—And It Changed the Way I Use My Phone

I downloaded a digital detox app thinking it would just limit my screen time—but it ended up shifting something much deeper. For 30 days, I used ScreenZen, an app that made me breathe before I could open Instagram or Facebook. What started as a small pause turned into a powerful daily reset—one that helped me reclaim time, presence, and clarity.

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When the Doubt Creeps In: Trusting Your Inner Voice When Everyone Else Says Stay
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When the Doubt Creeps In: Trusting Your Inner Voice When Everyone Else Says Stay

When everything looks “fine” on paper but feels wrong in your body, it’s time to listen. That restless nudge? It’s your soul calling for more. But change is scary — and doubt gets loud. I’ve been there. I left a high-level job, traveled, meditated, and found my joy again. Now I help women do the same. This blog is for anyone standing at the edge of change, frozen by fear but craving freedom. Doubt doesn’t mean stop — it means you’re on the verge of something real. Let’s take the next step together.

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Digital Overload Is Draining You—Here’s How to Reclaim Your Life
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Digital Overload Is Draining You—Here’s How to Reclaim Your Life

Feeling fried by your phone?

Between nonstop news, work notifications, and social scrolling, digital overload is quietly stealing our focus, peace, and presence. This blog explores how digital overwhelm impacts our political awareness, productivity, and personal joy—and offers simple, powerful ways to reset. Ready to unplug and think clearly again? Start here.

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Self-Sabotage Is Sneaky—Here’s How to Outsmart It
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Self-Sabotage Is Sneaky—Here’s How to Outsmart It

Ever feel stuck in a cycle of setting goals… and then somehow getting in your own way? You’re not alone. Self-sabotage often hides in our everyday habits—patterns that prioritize short-term comfort over long-term growth. In this post, I’ll share the latest science on why this happens, how the habit loop keeps us stuck, and simple, proven ways to finally break free and move toward what you truly want.

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Stop Ghosting Your Own Goals (They Miss You!)
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Stop Ghosting Your Own Goals (They Miss You!)

Ever notice how you can show up for everyone else’s priorities—but when it comes to your own goals, you ghost? You’re not alone. Many of us get stuck in this cycle of guilt, stress, and self-neglect—especially when we’re juggling life’s transitions. But there are real (and fixable!) reasons why we do this. In this post, you’ll learn why it happens, how to shift it, and simple ways to finally start honoring your own goals—with a lot more self-compassion and a little less overwhelm.

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Rest: The Secret Weapon You’re Too Stubborn to Use
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Rest: The Secret Weapon You’re Too Stubborn to Use

Rest? Overrated. Or so we tell ourselves while running on fumes and wondering why we put our phone in the fridge. The truth? Rest isn’t laziness—it’s a life hack.

Science says it lowers stress, boosts focus, and keeps us from turning into cranky zombies. So, schedule that guilt-free nap, take a deep breath, and embrace the radical act of doing absolutely nothing. Your future, well-rested self will thank you.

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The Superpower You Didn’t Know You Had: The Science and Practice of Breathwork
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

The Superpower You Didn’t Know You Had: The Science and Practice of Breathwork

Unlock the transformative power of your breath—a built-in superpower that can calm your mind, reduce stress, and enhance focus. This blog explores the science behind breathwork, revealing how conscious breathing regulates your nervous system, balances oxygen and CO2, and improves mental and physical well-being.

Explore simple breathwork techniques like box breathing and 4-7-8 breathing to enhance resilience, mindfulness, and overall health—one breath at a time.

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Reconnect with Yourself Through Gratitude and Forest Bathing
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Reconnect with Yourself Through Gratitude and Forest Bathing

In today’s fast-paced world, forest bathing, or shinrin-yoku, offers a powerful way to reconnect with nature and yourself. By immersing your senses in the beauty of the natural world, you create space for calm, clarity, and renewal. Adding gratitude to this practice deepens the experience, helping you reflect on life’s simple joys and moments of peace. Together, forest bathing and gratitude reduce stress, boost resilience, and foster a profound sense of connection—to nature, to others, and to yourself. Wherever you are, take time to slow down, breathe deeply, and embrace the gifts around you.

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Facing Fear: Why the Unknown Isn’t as Scary as You Think
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Facing Fear: Why the Unknown Isn’t as Scary as You Think

Fear of the unknown often feels like a roaring lion, stopping us from stepping into the life we truly want. In this blog, I explore the most common fears holding women back—financial insecurity, past failures, societal expectations—and how to move past them with courage, clarity, and small actionable steps. The unknown doesn’t have to be dangerous; it can be the gateway to extraordinary possibilities.

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