I Tested a Digital Detox App for 30 Days—And It Changed the Way I Use My Phone
I downloaded a digital detox app thinking it would just limit my screen time—but it ended up shifting something much deeper. For 30 days, I used ScreenZen, an app that made me breathe before I could open Instagram or Facebook. What started as a small pause turned into a powerful daily reset—one that helped me reclaim time, presence, and clarity.
The Myth of “I’ll Be Happy When…” – Why Joy Isn’t a Finish Line
Think you’ll be happy when you get the job, lose the weight, or move into your dream home? That’s the Happiness Gap talking—and it’s lying to you. Joy isn’t a finish line. It’s something you can claim right now, in the middle of the life you already have.
When the Doubt Creeps In: Trusting Your Inner Voice When Everyone Else Says Stay
When everything looks “fine” on paper but feels wrong in your body, it’s time to listen. That restless nudge? It’s your soul calling for more. But change is scary — and doubt gets loud. I’ve been there. I left a high-level job, traveled, meditated, and found my joy again. Now I help women do the same. This blog is for anyone standing at the edge of change, frozen by fear but craving freedom. Doubt doesn’t mean stop — it means you’re on the verge of something real. Let’s take the next step together.
Networking Your Way Into a New Job: Strategies That Actually Work
Tired of applying to jobs and hearing nothing back? Networking may be your missing strategy. In this post, I share practical, proven ways to build authentic connections that help you land your next role. From informational interviews to online communities, these techniques go beyond job boards to unlock real opportunities.
Digital Overload Is Draining You—Here’s How to Reclaim Your Life
Feeling fried by your phone?
Between nonstop news, work notifications, and social scrolling, digital overload is quietly stealing our focus, peace, and presence. This blog explores how digital overwhelm impacts our political awareness, productivity, and personal joy—and offers simple, powerful ways to reset. Ready to unplug and think clearly again? Start here.
Self-Sabotage Is Sneaky—Here’s How to Outsmart It
Ever feel stuck in a cycle of setting goals… and then somehow getting in your own way? You’re not alone. Self-sabotage often hides in our everyday habits—patterns that prioritize short-term comfort over long-term growth. In this post, I’ll share the latest science on why this happens, how the habit loop keeps us stuck, and simple, proven ways to finally break free and move toward what you truly want.
Stop Ghosting Your Own Goals (They Miss You!)
Ever notice how you can show up for everyone else’s priorities—but when it comes to your own goals, you ghost? You’re not alone. Many of us get stuck in this cycle of guilt, stress, and self-neglect—especially when we’re juggling life’s transitions. But there are real (and fixable!) reasons why we do this. In this post, you’ll learn why it happens, how to shift it, and simple ways to finally start honoring your own goals—with a lot more self-compassion and a little less overwhelm.
The Necklace That Flies: Honoring Maggie Gee and the Legacy of Powerful Women
At a time when Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) programs are being eliminated or silenced, our stories become even more vital. They are living proof that history is more than a single narrative—that courage, brilliance, and service have always come from all walks of life.
The story of Maggie Gee—a Chinese American WWII pilot, physicist, and community leader—is one of those stories. And it lives on not just through medals or archives, but through a necklace, a friendship, and a chain of powerful women passing courage from one generation to the next.
We must keep telling these stories. Because when systems try to erase them, it’s our voices, our memories, and our sharing that keep truth alive.
"You can make changes. I think just one small person can make a little bit of change." – Maggie Gee
Rest: The Secret Weapon You’re Too Stubborn to Use
Rest? Overrated. Or so we tell ourselves while running on fumes and wondering why we put our phone in the fridge. The truth? Rest isn’t laziness—it’s a life hack.
Science says it lowers stress, boosts focus, and keeps us from turning into cranky zombies. So, schedule that guilt-free nap, take a deep breath, and embrace the radical act of doing absolutely nothing. Your future, well-rested self will thank you.
How Women Should Negotiate Differently Than Men
Women can navigate negotiation challenges by framing requests as mutually beneficial, using data to justify asks, and advocating as if for a team. Overcoming imposter syndrome, rejecting the first offer, and practicing negotiation regularly can lead to better outcomes. Always negotiate—because men do.
Email: The Silent Time Killer – How to Take Back Control of Your Productivity
Drowning in emails? You check your inbox “real quick,” and suddenly an hour’s gone. Sound familiar? Emails multiply like rabbits, hijacking your day and focus. But don’t worry—I’ve got simple tricks to tame your inbox, reclaim your time, and stop email from running the show. Let’s dive in! 🚀📩
Women, Stop Settling: How to Negotiate for the Pay & Perks You Deserve
Too many women leave money and perks on the table by not negotiating. This blog breaks down the real cost of not asking, why it happens, and key strategies to confidently negotiate salary, benefits, and career growth—whether in your current role or a new job.
Surround Yourself with Growth-Minded People
The people you surround yourself with can either fuel your growth or keep you stuck. Growth-minded individuals challenge you to think bigger, embrace change, and step into your full potential. Inspired by Brené Brown’s research on wholehearted living, this post explores why your inner circle matters, how to find people who uplift and support your journey, and how the right relationships create a foundation for lasting personal transformation. If you’re ready to cultivate a circle that inspires progress, this is for you.
Mentors Are Not Unicorns—So Stop Searching for One!
Mentors aren’t magical unicorns—you won’t find just one person with all the answers. Instead, you need a team of mentors for different areas of life—career, leadership, parenting, and personal growth. And if you're looking for someone to help you connect all the dots? A life coach might be exactly what you need. Stop searching for perfection and start building your mentorship dream team!
How an Accountability Partner Can Help You Through Life Transitions
Struggling to follow through on life changes? Whether you're transitioning to a new career, navigating a breakup, becoming an empty nester, stepping into retirement, or seeking more balance in life, having an accountability partner can make all the difference. A life coach doesn’t just help you set goals—they keep you on track, challenge your excuses, and celebrate your wins. Discover how having someone in your corner can turn intention into action and make your transition smoother, more intentional, and ultimately, more successful. Ready to stop overthinking and start moving forward? Let’s dive in! 🚀
The Superpower You Didn’t Know You Had: The Science and Practice of Breathwork
Unlock the transformative power of your breath—a built-in superpower that can calm your mind, reduce stress, and enhance focus. This blog explores the science behind breathwork, revealing how conscious breathing regulates your nervous system, balances oxygen and CO2, and improves mental and physical well-being.
Explore simple breathwork techniques like box breathing and 4-7-8 breathing to enhance resilience, mindfulness, and overall health—one breath at a time.
Breaking Free from Perfectionism
Perfectionism often traps us in a cycle of procrastination and anxiety, driven by fear of imperfection. This blog explores how the 80/20 rule (focusing on the 20% of efforts that yield 80% of results) can help break free from perfectionism. It encourages setting realistic standards, using time limits, practicing self-compassion, and celebrating progress over flawlessness. By letting go of unattainable ideals and embracing meaningful action, you can achieve more, stress less, and find fulfillment in progress, not perfection.
Facing Fear: Why the Unknown Isn’t as Scary as You Think
Fear of the unknown often feels like a roaring lion, stopping us from stepping into the life we truly want. In this blog, I explore the most common fears holding women back—financial insecurity, past failures, societal expectations—and how to move past them with courage, clarity, and small actionable steps. The unknown doesn’t have to be dangerous; it can be the gateway to extraordinary possibilities.
The Power of Starting Small: How Tiny Steps Lead to Big Changes
Feeling overwhelmed by big goals and endless to-do lists? Learn how starting small and focusing on tiny, consistent actions can help you build habits, gain momentum, and achieve meaningful change. Discover strategies like setting a minimum baseline, staying accountable, and celebrating small wins to transform your approach and create lasting success.
Facing the Fear of Change: How to Embrace the Unknown
Face-to-face with fear—this crocodile on the Zambezi River reminded me how real danger feels and how often our imagined fears pale in comparison.